The Elevation Experience: Being transformed through cross-cultural relationshipsOthers, Poverty , Recovery
Contributed by: Youth Unlimited (Greater Vancouver)
Written by Chris Hege, Elevation Project Manager
At the Elevation Experience our vision is to “break the cycle of poverty in the lives of Canadian & Rwandan youth by providing holistic education and leadership development opportunities.” Over the last 10 years we have been able to invest into the lives of over 40 youth teaching them about God’s heart for justice, informing them about the importance of healthy relationships and living out God’s love for them. Here are 5 testimonies about the Elevation Experience and how it has impacted young peoples lives.
Nevada-Lee’s story: From shattered to shining
Four years ago, Nevada-Lee’s future looked anything but bright. The stress of her severe depression and anxiety, triggered by unpredictable circumstances, left her a high school drop-out at 15. But after six months she became determined to return to school. Her delight when she found out she’d be attending the North Shore’s alternative school was shattered after learning her best friend had just died. “I felt like everything was falling apart,” says the 19-year old. “I was smoking weed all the time. I didn’t pay attention in school. I was isolated.”
Fortunately, that all changed when Nevada-Lee connected with a YU youth worker at her school. She found consistent support and a new loving social network. “They’re life-changing friends, they’re family,” she says. “I don’t know who I’d be without them.”
Nevada-Lee went on to attend camp—made possible by YU’s generous donors—where she decided to welcome Jesus into her life and make healthier choices. She radiated with life and soon reached two significant milestones: completing high school and moving out on her own. This summer she reached another one. She left North America for the first time and headed to Rwanda, further widening her growth. “I was looking at my idea of poverty,” she says. “People there were so poor yet they were smiling, laughing and playing with what they had. My idea of poverty is not theirs. Though poor in wealth, they were rich in life.”
Rhys’ story: The DNA of giving back
For his ninth birthday, Rhys and his parents decided his party should be one that made a difference.
Rhys had learned about the challenges Rwandan children face, from his father, a longtime YU partner. “I remember realizing that I had a lot of toys and wanted to share with kids who didn’t have any,” he says. Rhys asked friends to bring donations instead of presents to his party. The money raised supported children in YU’s Rwandan school sponsorship program.
Today, the 16-year old’s desire to make a difference is deepening as he recently accomplished his lifelong dream of visiting Rwanda with YU. “I think that God had been nudging me towards this trip,” says Rhys. “It was a once in a lifetime experience. I had always been interested in the ‘land of a thousand hills’ and it was a dream to visit.”
Mark’s story: Mirroring poverty of relationships and community
“I will never forget my first experience of an African country” says Mark, GVYU Executive Director, while reflecting on the partnership with Youth for Christ Rwanda. The sweet smell of jasmine was carried on the air of a thousand cooking fires as I stepped out onto the Tarmac. Rwanda is a tiny slice of paradise, a beautiful land inhabited by beautiful people with a dark past. It was hard to imagine that in 1994 one million people were butchered to death in this place affectionately known as “the land of a thousand hills.”
Mark has been back to Rwanda a half dozen times now and each experience is like looking into one of those magnifying mirrors revealing both beauty and blemishes. Connecting with his Rwandan friends exposed some of the ugly things about him. Rwandans are wonderfully generous in their relationships, taking in orphans, supporting widows or simply giving what little milk and eggs they have to a neighbour in need. Seeing this with his own eyes has mirrored his poverty of relationships and community. We all long to be known and loved by God and others. We all long for the kinds of relationships that help us to become our true selves. Mark also believes we are called to create communities where our most marginalized and vulnerable are cared for and given the same opportunities that we have. He states: “I need to do a better job of this.”
Jimmy Carter once said “The measure of a society is found in how they treat their weakest and most helpless citizens.” And it was Jesus who told his followers that when they were loving someone overlooked or ignored they were also loving him.
What Mark loves about the Youth Unlimited staff is that the team works hard to create healthy communities across Greater Vancouver. One of the ways they do this is by giving the youth in the Elevation Experience the opportunity to experience relationships with our partners and friends in Rwanda. Through this trip and experience young people are given the opportunity to look long into the mirror and to see themselves and humanity in a new way.
Erica’s story: Making the impossible, possible
Twenty-one-year-old Erica is an artist with a joint passion for photography and baking. Through mentorship in YU’s Creative Life arts program Erica has transformed from a girl who didn’t think she could do anything, to a confident young adult willing to support others. “Youth Unlimited has had a big impact on me,” she says. “I’ve pushed myself to accomplish my goals and they’ve encouraged me in great ways.”
For Erica, joining the Elevation team was both exciting and terrifying. She was keenly aware of the lack of financial resources and reliable adult support in her life. However, for 18-months, Erica courageously persevered in fundraising and in 2017 she reached her target! This fall, Erica will continue down her courageous path as she puts on a solo art show, made possible by a grant from the Vancouver Foundation.
Laura’s story: Hand in hand, not a hand out
Former Program Director Laura Solberg has been the driving force behind the Elevation Experience for ten years. She developed it with youth like Nevada-Lee, Rhys and Erica in mind. She wanted to create an innovative international learning experience that equips young people to be leaders. “There is a lack of positive adult role models within their communities,” says Laura. “We want to give our youth the opportunity to change that.”
In September 2007, Greater Vancouver YU and Youth for Christ Rwanda formed a mutually transformative partnership. The journey since then has been one of learning equal give and take. “We have so much to learn and so much to receive in this relationship,” says Laura.
Laura explains that one of the key ways youth grow while in Rwanda is through genuine friendships with Rwandan youth. “They realize that there’s more that connects us than divides,” she says. “We’re all made in the image of God. When they see that others have value, it helps them to see their own.”
Learn more about the Elevation Experience: www.Youthunlimited.com/elevation-experience